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Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Self Confidence vs Ego
There is a thin line dividing
confidence
and
ego
. Most of the time we get confused and fail to decide whether we are on the right track or our
ego
is dominating in the guise of
confidence.
When
ego
dominates every success turns into failure. One has to be very careful about it. How to distinguish between
confidence
and
ego
?
A man of
confidence
says that he can do the work and others can also do it; where as a man of
ego
says that he alone can do it and nobody else can.
A man of
confidence
always try to encourage and help others in building their
confidence
, whereas a man of
ego
tries to curb and discourage others when they try to come up in life.
A man of
confidence
always attracts people. Even the weak feel confident and elevated in his company. Where as an
egoistic
person creates repulsion in the minds of people who try to avoid him because of his boastful nature.
A man of
confidence
appreciates the success of others and shares happiness with them. Whereas a man of
ego
discourages and humiliates others and feels jealous of the success of others.
There is a joy in working with people of
confidence
because they are always cheerful and can mix with everybody. In the presence of
egoistic
people even the man of
confidence
feel an inferiority complex. They feel nervous to work with them.
A man of
confidence
always commands love and respect whereas a man of
ego
always demands and expects love and respect.
Confident
people are always successful in every field of life because they can conquer the hearts of all by putting their faith and
confidence
in others and receive all help and cooperation from colleagues and friends. A man of
ego
always suffers setbacks and failures loosing men and power because of his arrogant approach which adds only to his worries and tensions.
In one word a man of self
confidence
puts his faith in the inner most
Divine
self, the source of all power and energy and also feels presence of
Divine
in everyone while dealing with them whereas the
ego
centric person puts his faith only in his mental and intellectual abilities and skills, forgetting the
Divine
, which operates through mind and intellect out of ignorance. He applies the same standards while dealing with others. He is only aware of the weaknesses and drawbacks and never realises that the perfect
Divine
is hidden behind these superficial appearances, which can be awakened by constant training and positive approach.
All Glories to God!
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